I have a dilemna

[switch842]

So, I met with another photographer last night and have decided to go with the first photographer we met. Due in part to a few things that were said in the meeting. Like, for some reason, she felt that she had to tell me that my bridal party was only in my bridal party to drink. Excuse me? WTF?!?! Have you met my bridal party? Uh, no. Why would someone have the nerve to say something like that? I almost got up and walked out right there. So, here's the thing. When I call to tell them tomorrow that we've gone with another photographer, do I mention that? That that's one of the reasons why we're not going with them? It's just, did she even realize what she was saying? And it's a somewhat professional place with 10 photographers and the chick was the manager of the place or whatever. Is it me? Or was that just a horribly offensive thing to say?

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[amnellwyvern.livejournal.com]

That was definitely a horrible thing for her to say! On the other hand though, she might not have realized that what she said was wrong so I would let them know that you're choosing a different photographer because of it. Maybe then it won't happen to someone else.